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Holmes was among a group of health care professionals and former professional athletes who met recently at the Schomburg Center for Research in Black Culture in New York to discuss the problem of mental health and mental illness in athletes. The gathering was part of a series of salons initiated by Schomburg’s director, Khalil Muhammad, to explore the relationship between sports and the African-American community. But mental illness knows neither race nor ethnicity, and at a time when brain trauma has become front and center of a national conversation about safety in sports, mental illness is the silent spike of the sports industry. Asking for help is looked upon as a weakness in a community in which coaches preach mental toughness.
“They believe nothing can go wrong, they don’t need help, they can overcome,” Dr. Ira Glick, professor emeritus of and behavioral sciences at School of Medicine, said in a telephone interview.
He added: “And just for that alone, they don’t want to go to therapy either for psychotherapy or medication. You have to start to change the culture beginning in Little League, imbue in them from the time they are Little League players.”
There is, of course, a related issue: confidentiality. Whom can a player trust?
“Players want to have somebody to talk to, but they don’t want their teammates or the team to find out because of the stigma and they’re afraid of being dropped,” Glick said.
Luther Wright can attest to that. He was a high school star in , attended , then was a first-round pick of the .
Wright published an intriguing memoir — — that chronicled his journey from the celebrity of being the largest baby born in New Jersey that year to stardom in high school and college, to a season in the , to drug and and, finally, to a diagnosis of mental illness.
According to Wright, who attended the conference, an athlete desperate to provide for his family — and to reach the professional level — may not feel he has the luxury to divulge, much less explore, a mental health issue.
“You can’t get sick,” Wright said. “At the college level, that’s your proving ground. There’s no room for any type of diagnosis for mental health issues because that would put up a red flag and maybe block you from going to the next level.
“I don’t think they would even recruit you if they knew you had some illness or some mental health issues, that you were mentally incapable of performing at the highest level.”
A complicating factor is that coaches are often ill-equipped to recognize and deal with mental health issues. But the coach of the future, Holmes of the Northside Center suggested, may need to be better prepared.
Indeed, coaches could be required to have a certificate, if not an advanced degree, in mental health. Professional leagues and governing bodies at the high school and college levels could ensure coaches work with mental health practitioners who could train them to look for signs of trauma, and depression, among other maladies.
“Coaches need to know they’ve got somebody to talk with if things get out of hand,” Holmes said.
Coaches aren’t the only ones who fail to recognize mental health problems. General managers and team executives may look the other way, or go into denial, when mental health problems emerge in an enormously talented athlete.
Glick argued that owners by and large do not want to address the notion that athletes face mental illness. In fact, Glick said he felt some owners feel that disclosures could hurt business.
“They are not into this,” he said. “They are businessmen for the most part and almost none of them are interested in these mental health issues. They want their businesses to succeed. They’re also fans, so they carry the same biases that the public has about mental health.”
But are players and owners really adversaries when it comes to mental health and mental illness? Dr. Janet Taylor, a New York-based psychiatrist, who also attended the conference, said that she is not convinced they are.
“My impression is not that a team-furnished mental health professional is seen as the enemy, but the service/resource is either underutilized or inserted as punishment,” she said. “Getting help for mental health issues should be seen as healthy and a mature approach.”
It is not unusual for the public to be suspicious of athletes who were sidelined by mental health problems. But as the existence of these issues become more prominent in society, athletes’ emotional episodes may be viewed with greater understanding.
“Even though it’s ever so slowly, the stigma is being lessened around mental health,” Holmes said. “Mental health issues are being exacerbated in this environment, where you are highly stressed, you’re constantly at work or constantly performing all the time. People are under an inordinate amount of stress. Even though we have technology, in some ways it has increased the stress that we feel because there is this pressure to constantly respond. Therefore, we are finding perhaps a greater incidence of mental health issues.”
The larger problem is the deep-seated sports ethos that embraces a tradition of mental toughness, emotional fortitude and inner resourcefulness that makes it difficult, if not impossible, to say,
“Professional athletes are used to seeing themselves as warriors able to withstand multiple physical challenges, and have battled to get to the next level because of their mental and physical toughness,” Taylor said. “Now they may be sidelined by an enemy they can’t even see: their mind.”Continue reading the main story